Posted on behalf of Faustin, at his request.
Quote:[1]"Someone else's child" - what you are saying here is the pregnant woman's child is not hers, implying it is entirely the man's. I hope I don't have to explain why this is wrong.
[2]"half of the work" - See my response to this on the main thread. Once again completely disregarding the role that a woman plays in pregnancy and childbirth. It is so far removed from "half" that even suggesting it is a massive insult to mothers everywhere.
[3]I think these comments are delusional, sad, and disrespectful, and that's just those quotes.
I’ll respond to your points one at a time, I have labelled them in your OP above.
[1] That is your interpretation of my words, which is dead wrong. I did not mean to say, or imply for that matter, that a pregnant woman’s child is not hers. My intentions were to get the point across that it is not
just her child, it is just as much the father’s child as it is the mother’s.
[2] Like point 1, that is your interpretation of my words. As I said in my original comment, which you conveniently left out when quoting me was “only did half the work to create”, the “to create” is the key part here. I am well away that during pregnancy the mother does, biologically at least, 100% of the work. However during conception it is an indisputable scientific fact that you need 1 sperm cell and 1 egg cell to form an embryo, 1 out of 2 is 50%, so my statement here is not only scientifically accurate, but in no way disrespectful. Had I said “during pregnancy the woman only does 50% of the work”, that would be a different story, but I did not.
[3] There is a key part to your statement here: “I think”, that is your personal opinion. You are fully entitled to this opinion, just as I am mine. Not only is the punishment excessive, but unnecessary. I have provided evidence that clearly stated I am entitled to post my, albeit controversial, opinion in the Serious Discussions forum.
I’d also like to link back to my final point in the appeal.
Quote:Finally, I’d like to touch onto the forum rules. There are no rules that state I am not permitted to express my opinion and I am interested in which rules you believe I have violated.
You’re yet to state which forum rule I have broken, which suggests you’re not entirely sure yourself, or that I haven’t actually violated any of the rules.
I’d also like to loop back to the “Expectations within this subforum” thread by Enzyme. He writes “The Admin team will be more lenient in this forum”, which is why I believe the punishment to be so unnecessary. If you look at the thread I posted, which Bambo closed, roxas gave me a verbal warning regarding posting multiple posts, a mistake I quickly rectified. Surely the same logic should be applied here?
I’d also like to quickly mention how my warning was issued by a member of staff that had publicly disagreed with my opinion, which leads me to believe there may be a level of bias. I believe if X members of staff had my same opinion, the warning would never have been issued. Thus I would like to request this appeal is reviewed by a member of the staff team that does not have any involvement with the thread, or a member of staff with a neutral opinion regarding the topic.