"Talk about raid" Proceeds to kill us both without question, just kill us for our guns. Makes sense that. Someone talks about punching you, do you put a tranq in them and shotgun their bodies across the floor? Someone talks about breaking down your door, do you do that? No.
Denied.
Since you don't deny talking about said raid, if a mafia family overhears someone talking about raiding them and then sees the same people approach their base/house they kinda have a reason to shoot you.
and please try a less "shoot first" approach but rather something that involves more RP and less killing like tranq+rope+beat them up or call the cops on them or something. Something like this is very dangerous as you are treading too close to the FailRP/RDM line.